Ever since I hit 24 weeks I have been super clingy to my husband. I feel like he doesn't spend enough time with me and he is not making enough effort to make me feel like a priority. The thing is me and my husband have always been super independent and loved our alone time and time with out friends but the more pregnant I get the more I want him to ditch his friends and be with me. Which is very out of the ordinary for me and he is trying to adapt but he isn't used to this "new" me. Did anyone else feel like this when they were getting further along??
Super Clingy to Husband!
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Honestly, I want my hubby to go out and enjoy himself because I know I'll be super clingy and needy when the baby comes!
My husband went through this phase where he was "scared to hurt the baby" so I got super clingy and took every bit of attention I could get from him.
I think it's part of the wild pregnancy hormones. At first I didn't want him to be anywhere close to me, but as i got further into the pregnancy I got super clingy. The last trimester I literally used him as a body pillow!! 😂🤣😂
LOL... don't judge me... but... We always have the best sex when I am prego. No stress... you don't have to worry about getting pregnant because.. um... you already are! We just had fun with it. Relax and enjoy this time with your husband. It goes by really fast and then so much changes. It is your last few months of being just you and him.
Yes, totally normal. It is natural because you guys are in this together. He should recognize that and embrace it because in the coming years you guys are going to need each other more than ever. Children change everything in a relationship, but in a good way if you are open to it.
The clinginess may be because you are entering a new phase in your lives. Is it possible that you want him to sorta feel the magic and the transformation that is taking place within you? Also just the comfort of having company as you endure hormonal changes, fatigue etc??? Who likes to go through major upheavals all alone? Not me!!
I am like this NOW! I am glad to know that there is a support or network of woman who feel this way during pregnancy as I am sure that would be as well. But I have also heard the opposite happen.
It makes sense, though, so don't beat yourself up over it. You're both going through a major life change, and in your in the last chapter before a new one begins.
I was like this! I hated being alone
You're better than me, I wanted to choke mine out most of the time.
I was like this half the time!
I wanted to be alone a lot when I was pregnant
I was the same exact way, I didn't want him to leave my sight.
I was super clingy with mine when I was pregnant too. I didn't want him to go anywhere without me! Lol
I was the same way! I always wanted to be around him.
I was like that too.
I wasn't clingy. I think he would not have stood for it. However, I can relate to the feelings of being miles apart, emotionally and you transition through so many changes and especially if he is out having fun times and being carefree while you count stretch marks and time your braxton hicks contractions.
I remember being that way toward the end of a couple of my pregnancies. It can be hormonal or emotional. Keep communicating and he will have to learn how to be flexible because you will need him a lot after baby is born too!
I get this way too when I'm pregnant... I think it's because I feel like he is always getting to do fun things, while I'm stuck being pregnant if that makes sense? I think it comes down to just being jealous.
I felt this and now that i'm out of it i swear it was because my life had changed already - i couldnt stay up late and drink, etc. and i wanted him to be on the same page as me, if that made sense.
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