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No Judgement Zone!

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user3 posted this 16 May 2019

Any moms just need a place to vent? Let me (us) be your sounding board! This is a no judgement, safe zone!!! Motherhood is so hard, and sometimes we suffer in silence! Would love to listen, laugh, and pray with all you beautiful ladies!

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Emily posted this 19 July 2019

What a great idea and a great title for this thread. I feel like especially in 2019 with all the social media, there is so much mom-shaming out there when we're all just trying to do our best. Keep at it everyone, you're doing a good job!

Natalie posted this 12 July 2019

I am a work at home and stay at home mom and it's HARD. Hardest thing I have ever done in my life.  I wouldn't change being able to be home, just wish I had more family to come help out in the area, even if I was just for 1-2 hours.  It's not that I can't do it (although we should be able to ask for help just to have the company), it's that I have work I would rather get over with in the morning so I could truly enjoy the rest of the day with my little one without any interruptions. 

Jillian posted this 21 June 2019

I love this thread.  I just loved reading all of your vents because they're SO RELATABLE.  It's funny how isolating motherhood can be and feel but when you read something like this, you realize that you're not alone at all. 

My day was pretty good today except for when my daughter screamed loud enough to wake the dead at the dinner table because she didn't want the pizza I gave her.  ITS NOT STEAMED SPINACH YA LITTLE MONSTER.   they're in bed now though so all is well.

user7 posted this 04 June 2019

You and me both! I wonder how many years it will be until I can get a good night's sleep again.

This is great! Every mom needs to vent from time to time... my biggest complaint is sleep! I need more of it!!

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Robin posted this 03 June 2019

This is great! Every mom needs to vent from time to time... my biggest complaint is sleep! I need more of it!!

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user5 posted this 03 June 2019

Here's a rant: moms posting negative comments on here! I am not talking about disagreeing with someone from an evidence-based standpoint, but negative comments for no apparent reason other than to be snarky and rude! I started a discussion on vegan pregnancy, and a mom commented about how it is selfish but provides no evidence to support her view. Why even say anything, but to be childish and rude??? I didn't ask if you liked my lifestyle or not. I asked for firsthand experience and resources to support a plant-based pregnancy, none of which she provided. UGH!!! If you don't have anything constructive to add--don't post!

Sammy posted this 01 June 2019

We had to move 3x in 8 months, covering 3 different states. Someone we trusted put us in a terrible situation and we had to use all our savings to get out of it. Now we had to move in with my mom and the pay here is SO MUCH LOWER than before where we lived. Things are just terrible. BUT, it's making us really try hard to follow our true passions instead of get back into the rat race of a 9-5. We figure no better time than now. 

user3 posted this 01 June 2019

Oh! And can I say that I MISS MISS MISS MISS MISS hot yoga! I haven't been in... two years! I used to go every day, sometimes twice a day!!! 

user3 posted this 01 June 2019

I am glad that moms are loving this venting arena! I have been so boggled down with the stresses of life lately, and I just need a place to turn to and vent! I love my kiddos more than the air I breathe, but I miss me. Anyone else remember the single version of yourself, and just wish you could trade places for a day? LOL! I miss going to the grocery store with just a basket on my arm. I miss hopping in the car at a moment's notice, and riding off to places--even to just get takeout. I miss eating a meal in silence while watching TV on my couch or bed. And, I especially miss not having to scarf the food down, or share the food with a little person. I wouldn't trade my life for anything in the world--my babies are a blessing. I just miss my independence and freedom from time to time.

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Ruthie posted this 22 May 2019

I have been so tired the last few months and out can be so stressful as a mother, especially a single mom, when your kid is being a kid, but it feels like you're repeating yourself constantly and you just want to cry like a toddler too. Lol or maybe that's just me.

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Natalie posted this 21 May 2019

I have been judged, assuming I don't know the details about parenting, because I am not yet a parent.  But in reality, I have been quite observant and know quite a lot. 

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Josie posted this 21 May 2019

I think one of the hardest things to do as a parent is the decision to go from SAHM to a mom who does take some time on her own without kids around to accomplish something and put kids in daycare or other resource.  

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user6 posted this 21 May 2019

I experience this too. Sometimes I just want baby to sleep all day and give me time to myself! But, every day is different and tomorrow is a new day. Don't worry; you will get income from another source. I have faith in God that you will be able to support your family as the Lord intends!

I'm a freelance writer and just lost a $400/week client. So I'm obviously stressed out anyway. And today, my LO hasn't stopped screaming since he woke up, and won't go down for a nap. Mad at myself for being frustrated with him because he's obviously having a rough day, but also stressed to the max. Halp!! 😭 

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Abby posted this 20 May 2019

Love this. Every mom needs to vent somewhere!

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Taylor posted this 20 May 2019

Such a great idea! Here to support and listen to anyone😀 

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Jenny posted this 20 May 2019

I'm a freelance writer and just lost a $400/week client. So I'm obviously stressed out anyway. And today, my LO hasn't stopped screaming since he woke up, and won't go down for a nap. Mad at myself for being frustrated with him because he's obviously having a rough day, but also stressed to the max. Halp!! 😭 

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Jade posted this 20 May 2019

Great idea to have a vent board. Sometimes it's nice to bring things up anonymously because spouses and family remember you going off more than you even do the next day. 

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Gabby posted this 17 May 2019

Your struggle is VERY common! As moms we do so much all the time. Maybe try and have a chat with your husband and actually make a list of everything you are doing. Ask if theres something on the list that he could take on. I'm sorry you are frustrated, the struggle is real! I completely understand! Show him what it is you do... or maybe just stop doing it so he sees how it will all fall apart without you! lol Anyway, good luck to you! If you can try and find some time for YOU, its so important! 

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user4 posted this 17 May 2019

OMG! Why do I feel the EXACT SAME WAY! My husband thinks I am supposed to do everything for him, and I am like, "HELLO! You are a grown man--take care of yourself! I have this REAL baby to take care of!" Some days I wish I could just go to work too. It is SO much easier!!!

I LOVE THIS!!!!! 

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I'm having a super hard time lately. Being a Mom is hard. Sometimes I get so frustrated because I have to do EVERYTHING.  My husband thinks his only job is to work. Meanwhile, I work, take care of the kids, clean, cook, laundry, you name it.  I'm just feeling so angry!

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Kaylee posted this 17 May 2019

Love this!  Sooo important to have some kind of no judgment zone.


I put my kids (3.5 and 22 mo.) in daycare for the first time last week.  I always thought I would be a SAHM, but then I realized that I found what I want to do for the rest of my life and really wanted time to pursue that.  I was struggling with the kids so much more than I used to, and I got an opportunity in an AMAZING day care.


I have learned that what I think will be best for them, might change.  I really think that this situation is a thousand times better for them and for me!  

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