Husband is in a band

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Marie posted this 18 September 2019

I am due 12/24 (my little Christmas miracle) and my husband has a show for his band 12/1. I am paranoid i am going to go into labor early and he is going to be 2 hours way drinking with his friends at a show. Now I could just be paranoid and I should let my husband have a nice day with his friends. I don't know. What are your thoughts?

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Abbie posted this 03 October 2019

Mine is too! I would feel the same way. I hope everything works out for you

Holly posted this 23 September 2019

So cool that your hubby is in a band! I agree with the others - You should be okay since you will still have a few weeks to go, but to see if you could agree on some kind of compromise like no drinking. It may be a good idea to also have someone on call to help you that night just in case.

Regan posted this 23 September 2019

I would not be worried about him going an hour away but the drinking would make me nervous since he wouldn't be able to get back quickly if needed. I would ask him not to drink just so he can be prepared.

Becky posted this 20 September 2019

That is a tough one. Babies rarely come at the scheduled time. He's taking quite a risk. I suggest trying to walk the baby out to induce labor about a week prior to his gig. The timing of this new hobby/ commitment is eye roll inducing to say the least.

Megan posted this 19 September 2019

With the events being three weeks apart, you have really nothing to worry about. Like Annie said unless you have complications, your chances of going into labor that day of all days is low. 

Annie posted this 18 September 2019

Unless you have complications I think the chances of you going into labor that early (and specifically on that day) are low! Personally I would not be worried - and two hours away isn't too bad if he needs to get home quickly.